Have you lost that loving feeling?
I help couples break painful patterns, reconnect and develop a stronger love.
B.S. Marriage & Family Studies
MFT Grad Student
Master Certified Coach
I get it.
You wake up wondering,
How did we even get here?
How did the person you once felt the closest to become the person you feel most hurt, frustrated, or misunderstood by?
You’re not a terrible spouse for wondering.
The truth is, most of us entered marriage believing love would make the hard parts easier.
That our spouse would understand us like no one else.
That we’d naturally know how to communicate, work through conflict, and grow more in love every day.
BUT NO ONE TAUGHT YOU WHAT TO DO WHEN LOVE GETS HARD.
Your Relationship doesn’t have to stay stuck in the same cycle of hurt, frustration, and disconnection.
Together, we’ll understand what’s getting in the way and build the skills you need to communicate better, rebuild trust and create deeper connection.
You don’t need a perfect marriage.
You can finally talk without it becoming a fight.
You'll actually enjoy being together again!
You'll feel safe bringing your walls down and opening your heart.
You'll feel known - inside and outside of the bedroom
When you’ve tried everything, it’s easy to wonder if anything will actually work.
You’ve had the conversations. Made the promises. Tried to communicate better.
And somehow, you keep ending up in the same place.
I know what it’s like to love someone deeply and still feel hurt, lonely, frustrated, and unsure how to make things better.
But I also know this:
Your hardest season doesn’t have to define your marriage.
Sometimes you don’t need to try harder.
You need new tools, a deeper understanding of each other, and a different way forward.
There is a way back to each other.
I Get it!
You’ve read the books & listened to the podcasts.
You’ve tried letting things go.
You’ve promised each other things would be different.
But when you’re stuck inside the pattern, it can be hard to see a way out.
Together, we’ll slow things down, understand what’s really happening between you, and build the skills to create lasting change.
Your marriage is worth learning how to do things differently.
“Before working with Kim, I felt lost and turned to social media and podcasts for help with my marriage. Little did I know, my personal beliefs and mental health were the missing pieces to improving my life.
Kim’s passion for healing and problem-solving is infectious and made our sessions enjoyable. We both nerded out and laughed as we tackled problems and worked towards solutions.
~ James M
“Thanks to Kim’s guidance, I was able to take control of my healing journey and transform my life.
Before working with Kim, I didn’t even realize that I had trauma to heal, let alone how to heal it. She helped me take accountability for my own healing, and the results have been life-changing.
Kim’s support has been invaluable, and I can confidently say that I wouldn’t be where I am today without her.
~ Kristine A.
“Kim has been a wonderful marriage coach for my husband and I. She is understanding and knowledgeable. She offers up techniques to assist us in our communication or lack thereof. My husband and I have been using her suggestions, and it has become easier between us to communicate during moments of frustration.
We look forward to meeting with her, as a couple, every week
~ Darren & Tasha S.
Reaching out for help can feel like a big step.
Especially when you’re not sure what kind of support you need.
That’s exactly what this call is for.
We’ll talk about what’s happening in your relationship, what you’d like to change, and whether working together feels like the right next step.
No pressure. Just a conversation about where you are and where you want to go.
I Had To Learn How To Change My Own
I grew up in an abusive home without a healthy relationship to model. And after eleven years of marriage, my husband and I found ourselves on the brink of divorce.
We chose to get help.
Over the next 18 months of marriage counseling, we rebuilt our relationship—and that experience changed the direction of my life.
I became a certified coach, earned my bachelor’s degree in Marriage & Family Studies from BYU–Idaho, and am now earning my master’s degree in Marriage & Family Therapy.
Today, I combine my lived experience with my education and training to help couples understand the patterns keeping them stuck and learn a healthier way forward.
I know what it’s like to wonder if you can find your way back to each other. I also know what it’s like when you do.
